My Recent Videos

This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith looks at the “Disney-Princess Delusion” where so many women reject the idea living in a household where they are responsible for half of the bills. The idea that they will be able to live a life of leisure, and freedom, while their husbands provide their every need, is unattainable for most because of the reality of Black economics.

This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith looks at some women’s mistaken belief that they are doing a man a favor by the mere act of showing up for a date and that all they need to do is look pretty and all of the effort to entertain and create an experience falls on the man to handle. 

Giving A Woman The ‘Queen’ Treatment (full video)… This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith discusses how different the expectations are related to the ‘Queen” or “Princess” treatment for both men and women. It also explores the appropriate way for a man to give her the ‘Queen’ treatment, with a focus on the key behaviors that men need to exhibit.

This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith looks at how one company brainwashed the world into thinking that spending 2-3 months' salary for an engagement ring makes any sense. I also look at real-world examples of what this would cost at various levels of salary and propose an alternative approach that makes more financial sense.

This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith looks at how courting and dating differ in some key aspects, specifically: the end goal, the level of commitment, the level of emotional investment, the role that sex plays, and the duration of the relationship.

This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith discusses how some women are confusing men’s desire to date feminine women with women that must be submissive. 

This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith discusses the things that a lot of women attempt to take credit for regarding what they ‘bring to the table’ and offers what it is that men really need for them to come with. Hopefully more women won’t continue to come empty-handed…

 This video by Dr. A. Davis Smith talks about how men should respond to a woman’s unrealistic expectations surrounding what he should be willing to spend on a first date! 

Answers to dating’s greatest questions: Is dating the most accepted form of prostitution? Is everyone totally missing the true purpose of dating? Do we really need to try to force everyone to change their approaches to dating? If you’re interested in hearing the answers to these questions and more, then I am so excited to announce my participation in an amazing podcast hosted by C.Q.P. Moments where  I discuss the current state of dating in the Black community as well as a host of other topics that affect how we are approaching romantic relationships. This is part 1 of a two-part discussion that you definitely don’t want to miss out on! It’s time to light ‘em up, so let’s get to it!

 Answers to dating’s greatest questions: How can men avoid being used by women? What is the real difference between dating and being in a relationship? Why do men overspend while dating? What is the ‘husband’ and the ‘wife’ treatment? Why do men want a ‘viginal-whore’ as a partner? If you’re interested in hearing the answers to these questions and more, then I am so excited to announce my participation in an amazing podcast hosted by C.Q.P. Moments where I discuss the current state of dating in the Black community as well as a host of other topics that affect how we are approaching romantic relationships. This is part 2 of a two-part discussion that you definitely don’t want to miss out on! It’s time to light ‘em up, so let’s get to it!

Check out this great video that looks at how we are dating wrong and the incorrect way that we are moving through the relationship cycle.  

Listen To Dr. A. Davis Smith discuss what characteristics men actually prefer in the partners that they select for relationships!